In our lab, we examine the care practices of other species and their (elective) families. We activate our senses and immerse ourselves in the world of instinctive relationships. We establish a common language of sounds and movements with which we can communicate consent, rejection and offers. On this basis, we explore lovingly rough forms of care with the help of scores and faux fur coats. We bite heartily into each other's fur, grab each other by the collar (of our faux fur coats), carry or pull each other. How can this game be used to question and renegotiate hierarchies?